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Sign in with Facebook Sign in options. Join Goodreads. Want to Read saving…. Want to Read Currently Reading Read. Error rating book. Refresh and try again. The Ethical Slut Quotes Showing of If you're feeling unloved and you want to feel better, go love someone, and see what happens.
It seems to me that faithfulness has very little to do with who you have sex with. Faithfulness is about honoring your commitments and respecting your friends and lovers, about caring for their well-being as well as your own. When we are involved in making agreements, we need to feel sure that the needs we reveal will not be held against us.
When our partners respond with respect, listen to us, validate our feelings, support and reassure us, we feel better taken care of than we would have if no difficulty had arisen in the first place.
So we strongly recommend that you and your partners give each other the profoundly bonding experience of sharing your vulnerabilities. We are all human, we are all vulnerable, and we all need validation.
Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability. Fix-it messages can feel like invalidation to the person who is trying to express an emotion. Such messages are disempowering and invalidating. Let us repeat that one: emotions are never wrong; only actions can be wrong. Emotions are an expression of our emotional truth, and truth cannot be wrong. Nor do they need to be justified.